why love is called blind

a person who fall in love start considering his girl as the most beautiful girl in the world and start to get mad about her,well the girl might not be that good but for the boy the girl is the best human being in the world and that is the reason love is called blind.

PATCH UP IN REALTIONSHIPS

Relationships went through many ups and downs  i am talking about casual breakups which leads to intense sadness among the couples,they usually fight over some matters and end up not talking to each other or trying their best to avoid each other but the does not matter how much efforts they make they can not stop themselves from not thinking about each other and after a particular period of time they feel like contacting each other but the thing which stop them from interacting is their respective egos.It is the ego and jealousy that creates most of the problem in the relationships.
Now the time comes when one of the take the brave effort of getting over his/her ego and ask for and patch up and tell hie/her of how they he love each other,what it was like to be separated,how much they feel for each other,how badly they want each other blah blah....
now the patch ups is done but the problem on which fight has happened is still not solved and the probability of a fight on that topic will take place is still 1.
it will remain 1 until and unless the problem is solved but the problem will never be solved and the problem will lead to breakup.
end of the relationship but the problem is still not solved
THE SECRET OF A HAPPY RELATIONSHIP IS:NO COMPLAINTS AND NO DEMANDS
so,compromise on problems as everything can not be perfect look for the postive part be happy.

GIFTS ORIENTED GIRLFRIENDS

there are many girlfriends who thinks that it is the duty of their boys to give them gifts for no good reason,well  some boys are kind of rich and can afford it but what about the boys who can not do that much?
The biggest problem with girls is that you can never ever fulfill their demands as their demands never ends,well asking for gifts is a way of making boys do what they want from them,in relationships a boy gives gifts not because he wants to but because he have to,i mean he do not have any fucking good reason to be happy about giving something to his girl.
guys listen i will suggest you that always hunt for a girl who never had any relationship,whose friends are single and who loves you more than your money.
girls always wants their bf to do something special for them,they keep on comparing her present bf to her ex and make the present one feel inferior,like my ex used to give me better gifts and he used to make me feel like princesses i mean damn......if he was so good then why you fucking came to my life.Boys never do that for them does not matter how bad she is,she is the best.
that is why boys are so simple and girls exploit them.

GIRLS INTELLIGENCE

Well girls are very intelligent creatures when it comes down to making their jobs done,they show as if they care about you a lot but then can ditch anytime.A girl never sacrifices her happiness for her lover all she wants from her guy is all kinds of special treatments and if she does not get that she keeps on complaining.
Look all boys wants sex we know that its not like girls does not want that but the thing is that they can get sex whenever they want but when it comes down to boys they have to wait till the girl make up her mind.
According to me boys are emotionally more involved in a relationship then girls as they keep on thinking about the girl all the time and girls mood affects their mood too but girls just show that they care for you in reality there are very few among them who cares.
After breakup it is not hard for a girl to get over her ex but when it comes down to the boy he will not be able to get over his ex in his entire life.Boys are so kind hearted and girls are such a mean.
That is the reason girls become successful and boys remain ordinary.

THE BREAKUP GAMES

my relationship is about to complete its first year and my gf was like baby i will do something special for you and all hearing that i said i will also do something special for you and she questioned me do you have any idea about the day we got in a relationship i was having a rough idea so i made my guesses but she denied all,well i proposed her on facebook and we used to chat like mad people i mean we share around 150000 messages and i proposed her in the starting of the chat only.Now what she wants from me is to go back to the starting messages and find out when we got in the relationship now hw can i do that i mean i do not have net neutrality and my facebook sucks how can i go through our messages so i lied and said i deleted the messages now she started fighting and said we can not be together well how it is possible for a creature to say love you....marry me in the evening and doing breakup at night only girls can do that they can love you when they feel like and they can breaup too at anytime its like you can be attacked emotionally anytime.
a) all girls at some point in a relationship will emotionally torture you for sur
b) girls can never be happy.....do one thing and they will tell  you that you are still missing on something
c) they can turn a discussion in to an argument and they can speak anything that will be extremely irrelevant to win it
d) their demand.
s never ends and one leads to another so please don not start because one life is not enough for that.
e) girls like getting attention and that is why they keep on breaking up so that the bf will give them attention so,avoid these kind of girls do not give them attention and then see you will dominate.
f) let the girl apologise......do not make a first move.
g) 99.9 gfs are alike so basically girls are all same.....boys wants sex and girls want attention

WHAT GIRLS LOOK FOR IN A GUY ?

 look we all are humans and it is the duty of every single human being to never give up on trying......try and try again and you might get success......well the main objective behind these words is not to motivate people or it is obviously not true that trying something leads to success just see the above two pics there is a guy who is so black that he should be in a Swiss bank, he is more black than any African or you can also compare coal to him but the kind of environment he was in was totally opposite so, he was only one of his kind so people used to make fun of him and bully him.
so he started using fair and handsome fairness cream to get fair complexion now tell me is he ever going to get that?
no it is pretty obvious but somewhere down the line he will always keep on trying and that is the positive point of this teaching that try and try again to get success.................some get success some does not, those who get success are happy but those who does not should not be sad because they at least tried and you can not more than that.
but guys never run after impossible thing like the guy mentioned in the pic is doing.
and yup girls are damn conscious about the looks of a guy and the girls who says that looks does not matter for me are liars.
study says that 70% of the task of wooing a girl is done by looks so if your looks are good then you have very bright chances but if you do not have good looks then do not try to woo a girl just switch to making money because more than looks girls run after money.

GIRL'S TANTRUMS

As wonderful and lovely as women are, they can occasionally be quite a handful to deal with. Between periods, drama with their friends, stress, and other problems, women can throw some serious tantrums from time to time. These tantrums can involve a lot of crying, passive aggressiveness, and sometimes, even screaming and throwing things with the express purpose of actually hitting you with them.
In most cases, these tantrums are probably harmless and just a passing storm of emotion that will dissolve in a few days or less. However, they still can be extremely difficult to deal with. What guy wants to struggle with so much drama?
How to handle your girl’s dramatic outbursts
So guys, if you are looking to find some ways to help you get through your girlfriend’s epic temper tantrums, this article is for you. Here are some great tips that can help you weather the storm!
#1 Go for a walk. Your girlfriend can’t argue with you if you aren’t there. So if you find that things are too heated and you just need to stop it as soon as possible, just get out of your apartment, or wherever you are, and go for a walk.
Going for a walk will help you clear your head, and it will create some much need space between you and your girlfriend. It will also help you get rid of some of the stress as both exercise and staying away from the cause of your stress are sure to help you calm down. Your girlfriend will probably also calm down during this time.
#2 Try to find a way to communicate effectively. Sometimes, if your girl is throwing a temper tantrum, it could be because she feels like she isn’t being heard, or she feels like she isn’t getting adequate space to express herself.
One strategy that you could try is to just give her some time to speak about everything that is on her mind without you saying anything. If you can give her the time to just get it all out, you may be surprised at how effective this can be for avoiding a future rampage. [Read: 15 rules to be a great boyfriend]
#3 Listen to music. Listening to music is another great way to help you get through these temper tantrums. If you can find a song that expresses pretty much exactly what you are feeling, listening to it can help you process the feeling and get through it.
Perhaps your girlfriend can try listening to some music to manage the bubbling rage she has within her. Maybe if she listens to “Ride the Lightning” by Metallica, it will help her get all of her rage out of her system. On the flip side, a calming tune like some soft jazz can also help her calm her nerves.
#4 Distract yourself with TV. If you have been arguing with your girlfriend all day because she is throwing a temper tantrum, taking a break to watch some TV can help calm things down. Who knows, maybe after a few episode of “House of Cards” on Netflix, you will forget why your girlfriend was arguing with you in the first place. #Winning.
However, note that this is just a momentary distraction. You’ll still have to deal with the root of the problem after your show is over.

#5 Go out for a drink with your friends. Letting the steam out is always better than keeping it all bottled up. When you go out with your friends, you’ll be able to express yourself to people who will understand and support you. Not only will this help you relax, but you might even get some tidbits of advice from your friends on how to handle this delicate situation.
Do keep in mind that you should only do this if going out with your friends is NOT the reason your girl is on a roaring rampage. Otherwise, you’ll just give her more ammunition.
#6 Get some space from you girlfriend. If you don’t live with your girlfriend, avoid seeing her in person until you resolve the issue. You don’t want things to escalate, so only see her if you are trying to resolve the issue, or if you have to see her. Otherwise there is a good chance you can just get sucked right back into the drama. If you are living with her, it may be a good time to go sleep on your friend’s couch for a few days.
This allows you to handle your own respective issues on your own. Since you’re not in your girl’s immediate sight to take out her frustrations on, she may find her own way of handling the reason behind her tantrums.
#7 Ask some of her friends to talk to her. This is exactly why befriending your girlfriend’s friends comes in handy. Talk to one of her closest friends and ask for some advice on what you can do to help her calm down. There may be some issues that your girlfriend hasn’t mentioned to you, so her friend may have more insight on the situation.
Once you’ve done this, ask the friend to talk to your girlfriend on your behalf. If the very image of you incites rage in your girlfriend, having a neutral person involved may be a good idea. [Read: 21 things you should never say to a woman]
#8 Get her some chocolate. Chocolate seems to have superpowers when it comes to making women happy. If nothing else is working, try giving her some chocolate. Side note, you may also want to just keep some around the house. It can be good when random tantrums appear. [Read: 10 things men just need to accept about women]
#9 Get her some ice cream. Ice cream is another magical food that can work wonders when it comes to quelling female tantrums. If you suspect that a tantrum is coming, stocking your freezer with a few pints of Ben and Jerry’s may be a life saver.
If it doesn’t help her, then you can just eat the rest. It’s amazing and will probably make you feel better anyway. [Read: 10 quick ways to make her feel better on her period]
#10 Break up with her. If the tantrums are coming too fast and thick, you may just have to break up with her. A man can only handle so much. At some point, you might just have to say that enough is enough. Despite your efforts to solve whatever’s bothering her, there may be an anger issue that you can’t solve on your own. Do yourself a favor and call it quits.
In the end, too much drama can take its toll on you. In these situations, you may just have to accept that you can’t change her, and move on. If this is the case, don’t worry. Once you have gone through the break up, you can always whip out Tinder and start browsing girls who seem more easygoing. [Read: 9 signs to know if you’re dating a girl worth keeping]
Dealing with female temper tantrums can be extremely frustrating. Sometimes, these temper tantrums can be caused by something that is petty and irrelevant, and sometimes, they can be caused by more serious issues. But if you haven’t done anything wrong and your girlfriend is just being ridiculous, then using some of these tips can help get you through the situation.